I have noticed this common behavior among all people.
And I wonder why others haven't noticed the same thing.
And sometimes, people do realize it but still do it for no reason.
If we looked at it from the human nature, it would sound normal to do,
But when it comes to assuming your SP, you will have to pay attention to it.
And that is SELF LOVE.
We all seek for love, we love other people and we want to be loved back.
You feel good when loving someone and you feel even better when you gain love back, especially if it is coming from your partner.
And it is absolutely fine because that’s a necessary thing in the first place.
But the missing piece here is YOURSELF.
What about loving yourself, you love and appreciate all those around you...
But you don’t love yourself enough, you don’t appreciate it enough.
You may be thinking that it is selfishness.
But what you don’t know is that self love is where everything starts from.
Including manifesting and having the person you want to live with. And whatever that you do in life is impacted by how much you love yourself.
The fact that your SP isn’t attracted to you yet, self love is one of the main reasons. It is all absolutely your level of self love.
So what is self love in the first palace:
SIMPLY, Self love is about how you think and see and feel about every single aspect of yourself, the good and the bad. It is about the little talk you give to yourself each moment and the greeting you greet yourself each morning and the sacrifice you make for you. It is the cheering you give yourself when achieving a thing, the support you show yourself when it doesn’t go your way.
It is not always a matter of the comfort thing, but about the discomfort, when doing the stuff you don’t want to do but you do it anyway as manifesting every single day, on a long term for example.
Self love is to be kind to yourself first, to be merciful and patient and compassionate with yourself. And the most crucial part is to FORGIVE you, you cannot achieve self love without having forgiveness toward yourself.
I’m sure that, when it comes to loving ourselves, you look at it as being selfish, but it is admiration and giving the possible best to ourselves.
And the other thing that you’re missing is that it has to do with manifesting your SP.
How is that possible?
We have talked so many times before about the fact that everything is a reflection of your inner state. So for you to get the love, the person you seek and you deserve will be depending upon how much you love yourself.
Think of it this way:
A person who doesn't feel good about themselves, doesn't appreciate themselves enough, a person who doesn’t value themselves will not be able to manifest their SP, because you will never ever manifest something that isn’t in sync with your feelings and emotions. If you don’t value yourself and love you first, how would somebody else value and love you while you yourself don’t treat yourself that way? The most precious and most important thing to you, is YOURSELF, and yet you don't love yourself, how would you expect others to love you more?
On the other side of it, somebody who really cherishes themselves, they show love, they show mercy and forgiveness, somebody who really appreciates themselves and has wonderful feelings and positive thoughts about themselves no matter what. it is impossible for them not to get the same thing back. They don’t even have to ask for it, the universe will say: “let me give it to them, multiplied and more than they deserve it”. Because they spoke the universe's language and tone.
So it is not selfishness but it is rewarding, it is getting back what is released out. When you don’t love yourself this also means that that SP cannot love you back.
For this reason...
There is no selfishness in loving your beautiful self, it’s necessary, when you do that, you want to give yourself the best state possible to manifest your person. You keep yourself safe from the negative influences that aren't in connection with what you want so the universe can respond to you. You’re totally open up for getting loved back.
Love as words, is an energy shaped of feelings and emotions you have about yourself. And in order for you to assume and manifest your specific person, you will need to give yourself the amount of love possible so you will bring it into other people.
And regardless of manifestation, when you actually treat yourself with love you pour into other human beings in a healthy way while you will be attached toxically to them when you don’t adore yourself enough.
So why don’t you do this:
You’re a human that you need to take care of, support you, love you, look after you, feed you, express love to yourself, encourage you, be there for you, give this human the best circumstances you possibly can. Take this as model for your self-love and watch what will happen.
And here is an insane exercise I insist on you to do every single night and every single morning you wake up.
Give a warm hug to yourself, and let it know how much you love yourself and how unique you are, express love to yourself. Remind yourself of how worthy and valuable you are.
Then, and this is where true transformation happens.
I want you to feel it not only saying it, let go of every single negative thought that will lower your potential. And you keep doing it on a daily basis till it becomes a habit and an obsession.
And you know what?
Next time you get into the manifestation process you will get into it with the state of fulfillment. And the assumptions you have toward yourself and toward the person you’re manifesting will be your reality.
Love yourself so they can love you back.